The List
-By LatterDayBride
June 10th 2009
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This is a list of sample questions to help you get started. Feel free to add as many questions as you can think of. Have fun!
Spouse Relationship
-What do you consider total commitment in marriage?
-What forms of affection do you expect?
-How do you feel about being yelled at or the “silent treatment”?
-Do you feel a spouse should have access to e-mail, mail, bank accounts and computer?
-How do you feel about talking to others about personal issues?
Family
-Holidays where and how
-Asking for help from parents
-Who is responsible for Family Home Evening?
-Giving family members money
-How many children and when
-What type of discipline do you believe in?
Activities
-What type of family traditions?
-Activities with family and friends
-Watching or playing sports
-Do you like to read?
-Vacations without spouse?
Recreational
-Hunting
-Golfing
-Working out
-Shopping
-Who stays home with the kids?
-Should Saturdays be spent together?
Appearance
-What if a spouse gains weight?
-Do you expect your spouse to always look ready?
-Should your wife shave her armpits and legs?
-Should your husband shave his face everyday?
-What do you feel you have to do to look good?
Financial
-Are you bringing any debt or unpaid bills in the marriage?
-Who pays the bills?
-How much money can you spend without telling the other?
-How much is acceptable amount to spend on clothes?
-Tithing
-How much money should you save from each pay check?
-Do you pay off your credit cards every month?
-Will all monies be joint and in joint accounts?
Education
-Should your spouse have a college degree?
-How do you feel about supporting a spouse going to school?
-Do you want your children to go to college?
Work
-How do you feel about both parents working outside the home?
-Job transfers to another state?
-Daycare for your kids?
-Working on Sundays?
Intimate Relationship
-What is your expectation regarding your physical relationship in marriage?
-How do you feel about discussing your likes or dislikes about sex?
Note: This is a very important category and one that is also very personal. If you need help adding more questions to this list, ask someone who has a good relationship with their spouse to help you.
Religion
-How do you feel about your religion?
-How do you feel about having an eternal family?
-Do you honor/sustain the Priesthood?
-Do you value a woman’s spiritual gift of intuition?
-How do you feel if you are of different religions?
-Will you go to church together?
-What religion will the children be?
Domestic Life
-Who does the laundry, washes the car, cooks the meals, does the dishes, does the yard work, etc?
-The toilet seat?!?
-Where do you squeeze the toothpaste?
-When one spouse stays home, what are the domestic responsibilities of the working spouse?
The Future
-What are your goals in all areas?
-What do you except to be doing in five years, 10 years and so on?
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